Discover a compassion-based method for defusing conflict and creating better relationships in every area of your life.
How do you respond to anger-in yourself or others? Do you fight fire with fire, or run for cover? Dr. Christian Conte created Yield Theory as a way to meet conflict without aggression or submissiveness through the practice of compassionate listening, de-escalation, and genuine communication. With Walking Through Anger, he shares this revolutionary model for dealing with inflamed emotions in even the most difficult and charged situations.
Combining Buddhist wisdom, neuroscience, and Dr. Conte's hands-on experience as a top anger management therapist, Walking Through Anger teaches you powerful tools for resolving conflict in a way that promotes deeper connection and understanding, including:
The three steps of Yield Theory: listen, validate, and explore options
Acceptance: the art of meeting others where they are without judgment
Authenticity: staying true to your essential self within conflict
Compassion: choosing to connect from a foundation of empathy
Nonattachment: letting go of the need to "be right"
Conscious education: the essential shift from emotion-based conflict to rational interaction
Creativity: opening the door to solutions you can't imagine from an angry place
Mindfulness: cultivating moment-to-moment awareness of emotional energy
The "Five Errors of Communication": how to avoid the most common pitfalls
"Communicating in the heat of conflict can feel overwhelming," says Dr. Conte, "Yield Theory gives you the tools to lead with compassion so that you can get around other people's defense mechanisms, communicate in ways that are actually heard, and connect more quickly and authentically than you ever thought possible." Walking Through Anger is a profound resource for learning to deal effectively with the most difficult emotions-in yourself and in others-to transform your relationships, interpersonal conflicts, and your day-to-day experience of life.
Industry Reviews
"Highly recommended! Dr. Conte engagingly offers an evolved and insightful perspective on how to effectively deal with one of the most significant issues of our time. If you are interested in an authentic solution to anger and conflict in today's world--read this book.
--Rich Pfeiffer, MDiv, PhD, author of Anger Management Workbook and Curriculum, president of the National Anger Management Association (NAMA)
"In this truly excellent self-help book, Dr. Christian Conte teaches us that rather than ignoring conflict and anger, the solution is to "walk through" and experience them. In ten clear and engrossing chapters, he offers both a powerful philosophy by which to live life and an evidence-based set of procedures to help you do so. His Yield Theory approach to authentically listening to others with compassion, validating their thoughts and feelings, and exploring options for problem resolution is the cornerstone of conflict reduction and self-improvement. Read this book and you will surely move forward towards personal happiness."
--Howard Kassinove, PhD, ABPP, author of Anger Management: The Complete Treatment Guide for Practitioners and coauthor of Anger Management for Everyone: Seven Proven Ways to Control Anger and Live a Happier Life